Seems I found an answer ....

As mentioned in a previous blog I was questioning about why certain things just happen to you and not someone else.. off late just bumped into a book called "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne .. a popular book , which has tried to answer that question of mine which quite matches to what Jaydip answered..

Excerpts :

Thoughts are magnetic, they have a frequency. As you think thoughts they are sent out into the Universe, and they magnetically attract all like things that are on the same frequency. Everything sent out returns to the source - You.

The law of attraction doesn't compute "don't" or "not" or "no" or any other word of negation. As you speak negation this is what the law of attraction is receiving :

"I don't want to spill something on this outfit "

"I want to spill something on this outfit and I want to spill more things"

"I don't want to be delayed "

" I want to be delayed"

" I don't want that person to be rude to me"

" I want that person and more people to be rude to me"

The law of attraction doesn't care whether you perceive something to be good or bad, or whether you don't want it or whether you want it. It's responding to your thoughts. So if you are looking at a mountain of debt, feeling iritable about it, that's the signal you're putting out into the Universe. "I feel really bad because of all this debt I've got." You're just affirming it to yourself. You feel it on every level of your being. That's what you're going to get more of.

Seems quite right on one plane.. and may be answers the question quite a bit... but at times I think things happen because they were bound to and not otherwise..

Jaydip by any chance you had come across this book called "The Secret" :)