Wednesday, 2 July 2008

coincidence or what ??!!

Sometimes, why certain events just happen with you and not with someone else.. all the more that event is something you hate the most .. for eg.. hair coming in the food plate that you are consuming and it keeps coming to your dish alone leaving apart other taking food from there only... :)

similarly other events that may happen to you but you hate those events to take place ... is there an answer to such events that happen to you consequently ...?? or can this termed as coincidence or what.... !!??

6 comments:

Hitesh said...

coincidence..might be...
but can we also link it to the Luck factor that we carry

Jaydip Mehta said...

I would say it as a principal rather than coincidence. Your expectation that "things you hate should not happen" itself creates them. Hate it. No problem. But do not expect it not to happen. Do not change your test. Do not change your liking. Do not start loving those incidents. But do not expect it not to happen.

Ever observed these,
A person who hates lizards the most will see them the first?
A person who hates cocroches the most finds them more frequently than others?

A short story on the same: Child is hanging from branch of tree. Child is loosing control. And so he is about to leave that branch and fall. So you tell "Don't fall!" And he will fall. You tell "Hold on tightly." And he will get courage to hold on tightly.

Hope this answers.

Stupidosaur said...

How do you know "it happens only to you"?

When it happens to you, you don't go and advertise to everybody.

Similarly when it happends to them, they don't come and advertise to you.

chinmai said...

@hitesh:probably more than coincidence...

@jaydip: ur ans. is nice and understandable but what i dont get is why would the events that u hate occur (in the deep core of ur mind and heart u dont want them to occur ).. is it that part of subconscious that works on the bad side works more to let the events that one hates happen, where as the good side of the subconscious dosent want it to happen ..but bad overtakes the good..??

@saur : may be it may occur to others also.. but i meant the why would the event that u hate , occurs most to/with you..

Jaydip Mehta said...

Good point .. ok leeme make it more clear ..
You just imagine yourself eating an apple .. Now you imagine yourself "not" eating an apple ...
Imaging in positive way (eating an apple) is easy .. while imaging in negative way ("not" eating an apple) is difficult .. While imaging about 'not eating an apple', first we may need to picturise ourself 'eating an apple' and than we will put cross over it .. Sunconscious mind works on whatever is feed to it.. even if fed informations is incorrect, sunconscious mind will work on it and make it happen.. Start not expecting them not to happen, stop feeding incorrect commands and than even if those incidents happen to you, you will not be distracted by it, you will notice them happening.. Probably someone else will come to you and say "how come your were not irritated by that incident? You were used to get irritated by it previously, right?" ...

Dishant said...

In my view,don't think much. let that thought pass through your mind..if you will open that thought it makes you think a lot on those things which actually don't require :).
For the question "why it happens to you..."..a very spiritual answer i can give you is "good that i caught in this situation rather than any one else"...i know its difficult to think on this path..